Urgent Boundaries

I didn’t realize it at the time, but he was giving me a lesson in boundaries. He said, after expressing how a client wanted him to drop everything and take care of her need, “Lack of planning on your part doesn’t make it an emergency on mine.”...

Sifting Through Safety

I recommended it for at least 3 years. I’d known about it for four or five now. A book by Christian psychologists: Henry Cloud and John Townsend, Safe People, a book on understanding why boundaries are important and how to be aware of traits and people who...

Gossip or Venting? You decide.

It’s ironic to me that the easiest way to vent is the most public yet least visited. I range between 1 and 20 page views on an average month. That’s not unique visitors. For unique visitors, the range is between 1 and 5. I’m not always sure if my...