Buy Nothing Day, version 2008

Last year we saw tips on how to budget shop like a pro.  In light of recent economic trends, when people have a more immediate need to watch their spending, let’s try any number of these alternatives on Black Friday while we switch the paradigm to Buy Nothing Day.

  1. Don’t go shopping, for anything
  2. Stay at home, relax
  3. Play with your kids, spouse/partner, friends
  4. Play board games
  5. Call up that friend you’ve been meaning to call during the holiday season now
  6. Make cookies, decorate with your family
  7. Enjoy hot cider
  8. Sit by a fire
  9. Sing carols
  10. Volunteer (soup kitchens, your favorite organization, neighborhood groups, churches, schools)
  11. Make Christmas wreaths with your friends
  12. Make Christmas cards and ornaments
  13. Decorate your Christmas Tree in a timely (not early) fashion with said homemade ornaments

Let’s use this year’s economic cautions as a reminder for what really counts at the holidays: Loved Ones, not Stuff.

Thanksgiving Revisited

Our cost for Thanksgiving, because we got an insanely cheap turkey at 29 cents a pound, is $26.26, and we’ve got all the items needed.  Today, New Seasons posted in their weekly ad a local harvest Thanksgiving for $50.  I could feed ten with the feast I’ll make, but I’m banking on lots of left overs to get us through, plus freezing turkey and/or broth after the main feast is done.  It’s just interesting to me how this new budget idea for Thanksgiving is all the rage.  It’s like advertisers finally caught up with the layoffs and belt tightening the rest of America has undergone for ages.  Certainly, we continue to live in an era of opulence, but it’s like it’s a less shiny version.  Quiet pontifications for a different way of doing Thanksgiving.

Thanksgiving Dinner

What is Thanksgiving all about anymore when very few actually harvest anything? Is it a reason to just engorge on traditional food while placating ourselves with family? Or is it really a time to give thanks for all the blessing we have, the food, the shelter, the family who keeps us sane and guides us through rough times? It is quite interesting to me how much Thanksgiving’s image has changed from our grade school plays. Pilgrims coming in, thankful for these Indians who knew how to plant and harvest, they generously shared their knowledge, and then we shared a meal. Let’s not discuss everything our grade school teachers didn’t teach us about Thanksgiving (the first), and rather compare the differences. Who of us now make it a true harvest meal? We had a garden of peppers and tomatoes. Because we planted late, we still have some last remaining tomatoes, but our peppers have all been devoured . So, our harvest dinner should include the remaining tomatoes, yes? Instead, we are having a more traditional fare, by ourselves no less, embarking on a new, smaller, quieter tradition.

What then will our menu be made of?  The following:

  • One 10 lb Turkey, not free-range this year as we are on a budget, $0.79 per lb at Safeway
  • Stuffing, made from one loaf of cubed homemade bread, about $1.50
  • Green bean casserole (God I love it no matter how trite), our most expensive per person item, about $3.76, the beans were purchased from a frozen 4 lb bag at $3.70 with about 1 lb to be used, the cream of mushroom soup will be about 0.90 and I may use 1/2 can of fried onions at about $1.50
  • A relish tray (for example only, probably will not serve) 1/2 lb each of celery & carrots, $0.85
  • 1 gallon of milk for mashed potatoes and beverage, $2.75
  • Fresh cranberries, 12 oz, $2.50 purchased from Fred Meyer
  • Potatoes, 10 lb bag $1.98, I’ll use probably 6-10 potatoes for garlic mashed potatoes, let’s say 5 lbs (too high an estimate I am sure) for about $1
  • Apple pie (homemade!), $2.60
  • Pumpkin pie (2), also homemade including fresh (now frozen) pureed pumpkin, $1.60
  • Bread (homemade!), $1.50
  • Cream (maybe…), $2.00?

The total?  $28.46.  This meal will be for a measly three.  A choice we have made.  With plenty of leftovers.  Realistically, we could feed 6 and 1/4 with a per person price of $4.55.  I doubt we’ll drink all the milk, and I will probably get myself some coffee for this day.  If we weren’t going to have green bean casserole, the price would drop to $25.63 and $4.10 each. The reason for this detailing?

The U.S. Farm Bureau released today that the average Thanksgiving meal will cost $44.61 for 10, or about $4.46 each.  The menu presented from the Farm Bureau uses purchased pie shells, rolls, and pumpkin pie mix.  They do not include apple pie, and they use stuffing mix!  Most of my ingredients I already have on hand, a form of modern day harvest, yes?  I included milk in the price because the Farm Bureau did, although we always have enough on hand.  I am not including the cost of butter and sugar as again, it’s a staple.  I’ve guessed at the price it will cost me to make pie dough (thanks Grandma for the great recipe) and bread.  I buy my flour and oils in bulk, for example 33 oz of extra virgin olive oil costs me about $7, whereas if I were to buy it per bottle at a normal grocery it would cost almost $10.  In fact, the only thing we have to purchase for Thanksgiving is the Turkey itself, which we’ll get at the deal posted above from Safeway this week.  I figure we’re making up with all the homemade goodies for not having a free-range turkey for one year.

I suppose I’m gloating.  I’m quite proud that we’ve been able to take these cost saving measures, maybe even so far, and still feel like we’re eating good.  It’s very important to me that my family’s nutrition does not suffer and that we train Levi up to be a good eater.  I have over 16 individual spices in my spice rack, whereupon I grew up with my mother who had about 6.  Curry, for exmaple, has been a frequent dinner lately.  We mix it up between standard meat and potatoes and the somewhat exotic for our Eastern European pallets with hot and spicy.  We trip into 30-minute glamor with the help of Rachael Ray and my imagination, and we’re doing it on a true budget.  And, Thanksgiving will be on the Cheap, but it will be a healthier meal than the one advertised by the Farm Bureau.

How to make Creme Fraiche

I believe knowledge should be shared, and free.  Together, I believe we hold the resources to make any life we want.  But, along the way we embraced that we should be appreciated for our knowledge through payment.  There are others who can explain in a better, clearer manner than I the history of money and why we do things the way we do.  That said, I am including a recipe I found from Lynn Rosetta Casper of the Splendid Table on how to make homemade creme fraiche, a delectable treat, I am told, for just about anything.  Find the original article here.


  • 1 to 2 tablespoons cultured buttermilk
  • 2 cups heavy cream (pasteurized, not ultra pasteurized or sterilized, and with no additives)

The steps

  1. Combine the buttermilk and cream in a saucepan and heat only to tepid (not more than 85 degrees on an instant reading thermometer).
  2. Pour into a clean glass jar.
  3. Partially cover and let stand at room temperature (between 65 and 75 degrees) for 8 to 24 hours, or until thickened.
  4. Stir and refrigerate at least 24 hours before using.
  5. The cream will keep about 2 weeks in the refrigerator.


October Levi

Dinner Time
Dinner Time

This month has been a busy month for the little bug.  We’ve been getting up later, thanks to Peter’s late schedule.  So our days typically look like this:

Levi sleeping at Sauvie Island Farms when we picked out pumpkins.
Levi sleeping at Sauvie Island Farms when we picked out pumpkins.

Levi gets up around 9, and we get out of bed around 9:30 or 10.  He has breakfast of a banana, a handful of Cheerios, and a sippy-cup full of milk.  Then, we play.  Sometimes we watch Baby Einstein’s Baby Bach.  Or we did until a few nights ago when he jammed it in the DVD player, and he has been unofficially grounded from watching his beloved DVD until we can corral his button pushing a bit more.  Interestingly, the desire to watch the DVD has wained.

Levi navigating through the corn maze after he woke up from his nap.
Levi navigating through the corn maze after he woke up from his nap.

Then, it’s nap time where Levi will sleep for an hour and a half to 3 hours.  This means, we often have a late lunch.  Usually lunch comprises one cut up hot dog, some grapes or other fruit, and some type of grain, which could be a slice of bread, part of a muffin, or maybe some more cereal or a leftover pancake.  The afternoon activities vary, but there is always dancing throughout the day.  Levi has many musical toys that either sing or make music in some other way.  Sometimes we’ll go for a walk, and sometimes we’ll go to the park.  Sometimes I’m baking so we just dance.

Levi working on fixing the heater.
Levi working on fixing the heater.

Next it’s dinner time.  Dinner varies from pasta to casseroles to vegetarian dishes to a straight-up meat and potato dish.  We have learned that Levi loves small pasta that he can wrap his fingers around.  He seems to always taste everything.  We even give him a half a piece of garlic toast, which he tastes every time, and every time makes the same surprised look when he realizes how tangy the garlic powder is!  He is still a ferocious meat eater, so when we do have a chicken or beef dish, he will gravitate towards that first.

Levi showing Mommy how to use the computer.
Levi showing Mommy how to use the computer.

After dinner, Peter usually goes to work, and kitchen clean-up begins.  After that, we dance some more, maybe watch Baby Bach, maybe the News Hour with Jim Lehrer.  Usually though, from 7-8, there is much chasing, hiding, and dancing.

Bountiful Feast

We’ve been purchasing many of our food goods at a local restaurant supply shop, Cash and Carry. They are, thankfully, open to the public.  This has been one of the ways in which we can experiment with trimming the fat from our budget without sacrificing nutrution, or simply to see if it is possible.  With the help of Cash and Carry and buying in bulk flours, we were able to make $5 pizzas the other night.  The crust was a recipe from a friend, homemade, yielding 2 crusts.  The ingredients included about 1 quart of homemade marinara sauce, with parmasean and mozzarella cheese.  Other toppings included shredded chicken, diced tomato, onion, and green peppers.  I thought they looked quite gourmet when we were done!

More Muffins

Smarter Muffins

Preheat oven 375 degrees

Grease 2 6-cup jumbo sized muffin tins
Makes 12 jumbo muffins

2/3 C milk
1/2 C oil
2 eggs
2 C unbleached white flour
2 C whole wheat flour
1 C packed brown sugar
4 t baking powder
1 t sea salt
2 very ripe mashed bananas
1 C raisins
2 C applesauce
1 C minced carrots
1 C walnuts

Mix dry ingredients (flour, sugar, baking powder & salt) in small bowl and set aside. Mix milk, oil, and egg in large bowl. Incorporate dry ingredients until moistened. Do not over mix. Add raisins, applesauce, carrots, and walnuts. Spoon into muffin tin. Bake for 20-25 minutes or until golden brown.


Preheat oven 375 degrees

Grease 1 6-cup jumbo sized muffin tin
Makes 6 jumbo muffins

1/3 C milk
1/4 C oil
1 egg
1 C unbleached white flour
1 C whole wheat flour
1/2 C brown sugar
2 t baking powder
1/2 t sea salt
1 C raisins
1 C applesauce

Mix dry ingredients (flour, sugar, baking powder & salt) in small bowl and set aside. Mix milk, oil, and egg in large bowl. Incorporate dry ingredients until moistened. Do not over mix. Add raisins and applesauce. Spoon into muffin tin. Bake for 20-25 minutes or until golden brown.

Banana Nut

1/3 C milk
1/4 C oil
1 egg
1 C unbleached white flour
1 C whole wheat flour
1/2 C brown sugar
2 t baking powder
1/2 t sea salt
2 very ripe mashed bananas
1 C walnuts, crushed

Mix dry ingredients (flour, sugar, baking powder & salt) in small bowl and set aside. Mix milk, oil, and egg in large bowl. Incorporate dry ingredients until moistened. Do not over mix. Add bananas and walnuts. Spoon into muffin tin. Bake for 20-25 minutes or until golden brown.


The milk-applesauce combination in the smarter muffins made a very moist, spongy textured muffin. I would recommend adding 1/4 t of cinnamon or cloves for an added kick to these tasty treats.

The Urban Homestead

A lot dealing with sustainability answers the question, “How can I do for myself?” A major component of sustainability is keeping things local, and what’s more local than supplying for yourself from your place on this earth? Whether it be an apartment, a small house with a small yard, or a farmhouse, a new book breaks it down in simple ideas for the Average American.

The Urban Homestead: Your Guide to Self-Sufficiency (review and blog) examines this question in a simple, easy-to-read format. It’s what we did with the Tolman Guide, it but makes the techy stuff easier to swallow. In The Urban Homestead you will find easy to understand tips for making your own cleaning products, how-to-compost and what to look for, and even a lengthy section on fermentation and storing food.

I will admit, I was a bit envious when I read it. The thought, “We did this first!” kept screaming through my head. But, they did it in a manner that’s easier to understand, and they hit many highlights of living in the city.

A must-read for any person who wants to live closer to the land in the city.

The Busy Bee

Levi is giving us a run for our money! Since he’s been getting enough protein, so for about a year now, his energy level has been on a constant spike upwards. He goes the moment he wakes up until the moment he sleeps. We can put him down, but unless he’s really sleepy, he will talk to himself or his stuffed animals from anywhere between 20 minutes and an hour! Then there will be silence until he wakes up. Usually naps have been lasting 2-3 hours and he sleeps all through the night. Yea! Night terrors no more!

Here are some photos of Levi helping his parents during this go-go-go of the past few days.

I made bread.

Levi helped, or wanted to.

He is learning to try things on. Maybe this means he’ll help clean the bathroom later!

Levi doesn’t have blocks, but he’s really good at improvising.

He likes chocolate chips (we were surprised to learn) and that reach is getting longer and longer.

Levi also tries on Daddy things, not just Mommy cleaning/baking gloves!

And, he loves helping Daddy. He even has his own real tool.

Finally, he’s basically mastered stairs. Yea, Levi!